Now a days, there are few places that you will see calligraphy in everyday life other than a wedding invitation. It is an art form that isn’t thought of much anymore. In our age of emails, texts and tweets, regular mail is rarely seen as much more than a bother. But, I have a long standing love affair with paper and all that goes into it. While I haven’t been shy about sounding off on specific invitations and how they set the tone of that wedding, I thought I would discuss one item in particular that I love about invitations in general – calligraphy.
When it comes to your wedding invitations, there are those that appreciate calligraphy and those that don’t. There are plenty of reasons to consider having your invitations addressed by a calligrapher. Of course, the highest reason is that it makes a beautiful statement. But, consider these reasons: you don’t have to sit and hand-write all the addresses (torture if you are busy bride), it makes your invitation stand out among the other pieces of mail that people get and halfheartedly sift through and it gives your invitation an air of importance.
I understand that not everyone has calligraphy high on their list of things that they want for their wedding. And, as always, cost and budgets do come into play. But, calligraphy doesn’t have to break the bank. Depending on the style and the calligrapher and the amount of pieces you want them to do, you can expect your calligraphy to add $1-$4 to your per invitation price. Do your research. There are all kinds of styles and price ranges out there. I have worked with quite a few calligraphers and they are all different. So, it really just depends on what you are looking for.
But, my biggest argument for calligraphy comes from the idealist in me. Do I think that you have to have calligraphy on your invitations because of some stated tradition? No. If I haven’t made myself clear, I’m not much for following traditions for tradition’s sake. Etiquette, yes. Tradition, no. So, I don’t think that you have to go and spend lots of money on calligraphy because tradition says that you do. I just love the art form of it. I appreciate the specialness of it. If there is any time to make things special, it is your wedding. Haven’t you ever heard someone say, “It’s the little things in life…”? Well, wedding calligraphy would be one of those things. Those small touches that just make things special.
To round things out, I’ve included a few photos of invitations from weddings past and each one has a different style. Maybe you might want to consider this often-overlooked part of wedding planning. Why? Because, I said you should
. And really, who could argue with this… Until next time – XOXO, Julie
Katherine and Chris – one of my absolute favorites. Extra formal. Engraved invitation. I think the calligraphy is perfect!
photo by FlipFlopFoto

photo by FlipFlopFoto
Brooke and Tom – There are more things to add calligraphy to than just the invitations and their reception printing was beyond. Calligraphy on their escort cards and menus. Set such a great tone for the reception.

Lauren and JP – Lauren, artist extraordinaire, did her own calligraphy. I would expect nothing less…
. A little less formal to go along with her very colorful invitations. Absolutely perfect.

photo by Our Labor of Love
photo by Our Labor of Love
Karla and Jeff – Their December wedding was formal and everything a winter wedding should be. To compliment? Their entire invitation was done in calligraphy and then reproduced. Such a gorgeous look!
photo by FlipFlopFoto